I Belong

    Recently Benjamin and Hannah joined our family. The novelty of twins has and may never wear off as far as I'm concerned. I find great joy in visiting and noting the changes in their faces and bodies. I've been thinking of rights when it comes to belonging. I'm sure the twins will exert their rights to be first, to be better, to be loved most, as all children do. But many adults cannot grow out of that stage of demanding rights.

When it comes to family life, perhaps demanding rights is not the most productive point of view. Of more importance is taking responsibility of being part of a family. Taking responsibility brings connection which is what most of us truly want. Demanding rights sets us apart.

I write on Fridays with a large group who inspire me. Only five minutes and without much thought to perfection. I write, prompted by one word that sends my thoughts to the keyboard and hopefully makes sense.