Thursday, December 18, 2025
A Giving Tree
"I have a tree."
"Where?"
"Right in front of you."
The fact that my two foot tree has been twinkling at them throughout the lesson has escaped them. In 1998 when my grand piano was delivered into my living room it became apparent that there would never be room again for a live tree.
"But, where do you put your presents?"
"Under the piano."
My beloved piano takes up half of a small room. The rest is sitting area. What is lost at Christmas is gained every other day when the sound of melody is wafting through the house.
I never regret buying my instrument. It blesses the lives of my students as well as my own. There was a year when we had an upright in the living room as well. I did not know how to part with the piano I had since I was eight years old. I found a home and it actually resides across the street with my student.
Life seems to be a struggle of choosing better over best. Best is often the choice that gives the most to the people we love. If the piano is a tree stand then truly this is a giving tree year round.
Friday, December 12, 2025
Christmas Past Story
It was Christmas 1980 and it is remembered by journal entries from Marta who hosted Christmas Eve celebrations at her home in Salt Lake City, Utah. She had been a widow for three years and this celebration was important to her, important enough to write an entry in her diary before the day and after the day.
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| Marta is marveling at her big family |
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| Ingo with son Jason and James in the foreground. |
Now I would like to know when Ingo and his family will come. We have for a week long just fog and smog outside, just terrible.
All of my four children, with spouses, were here on Christmas Eve, and nine grandchildren and Hännchen. The dinner on the table was nice. The children were in the basement for a while and then we started the program.
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| Karin singing with Kathy playing |
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| Andrew with Gaby 6 months pregnant |
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| Ingo and Jason with Tante Hunni looking on |
We have still read the Christmas Story in Luke in English and German. Mark and Peter did it. The children could not wait anymore.
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| Oma made dresses and shirts |
The girls had a lot of fun in their new dresses I made. I think they like when they look all alike.
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| Cousins Maria and Jason |
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| Cousins Joanne and Genevieve |
Gaby and family stayed the night before going back to Provo on Christmas.
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Tuesday, December 9, 2025
Mindful Giving
Presence
Everyone is buying presents
Ordering, combing the store shelves,
But perhaps missing the essence
Of what makes us love the elves.
The elves are busy in the workshop,
They are in the presence of the giver.
And their Christmas making doesn’t stop
Until everyone has something to deliver.
The giver doesn’t always bring stuff
Sometimes he brings his very presence.
To many this is better than fluff
Because we learn of his divine patience.
Monday, December 8, 2025
Three Symbols Of My Christmas Heritage
My Christmas Story of Faith grew out of my Christmas Story of Heritage
Christmas Sense
Sappy, sticky, evergreen boughs,
A soapy smell, mingled with earth.
Cinnamon, ginger, better somehow
When vanilla allows them birth.
Smoky, sizzling heat from candles
Tucked into pockets of green pine,
While Messiah music from Handel’s
Genius, lights spirit stars, as a sign,
He is coming. I smell it, hear it,
Touch it, as I knead the dough,
All the planing helps me commit
To receiving Him, quiet and slow.
My mother introduced three symbols of Christmas to me which still resonant for me today. The Christmas story from the Holy Bible, the advent celebrations and wreath, and the making of Pefferkuchen, along with other baked treats.
Friday, December 5, 2025
The Story Of Abundance
Too Much
Shall we buy a string of lights?
Oh, no, let’s buy six.
Shall we get some candles?
Oh, yes, let’s get five.
Shall we bake a pie?
Oh, no, let’s bake four.
Shall we get a Christmas tree
Oh, yes, let’s buy three.
Shall we roast a turkey?
Oh, no, let’s do prime rib, too.
Shall we celebrate this day together?
Just one day? Let’s do the whole week.
The Story of Abundance is a problematic story, in my opinion. Yes, the decorating of shop windows is festive and fun. I especially enjoy driving through my tiny town at 6:00 am, when no one is there except the lights. The Bookshop has a window with a easy chair and little table piled with new books. Warm light from an antique lamp shines on the scene. The Pharmacy windows are a blaze with twinkle lights, highlighting fancy plates and decorative linens.
But, the expectation of giving more and more leads to a franticness inside of me and a desperate feeling of inadequacy. My house is not festive enough, just look at that street of lights. My tree is not big enough, just look how our neighbor decorates. My gifts are too practical, just look how my relative creates magic for everyone.
Abundance is a positive word. It means we have more than enough and actually I live in abundance year round. Is there something of which I need more? More satiety, more outward caring, and more time with Jesus. He gives abundantly and entreats us to take His yoke upon us. That has never sounded attractive. Aren't we all part of the yoke with which He carries our weaknesses, our rebellions, our lack? Seems too much.
But yet, He says His burden is light? How can that be?
The answer seems to be LOVE.
Jesus has an abundance of love.
His love makes burdens LIGHT.
Shall we spread some love like Jesus this year?
Yes, let's give more.
"The key is to work out which elements of the story (of abundance) bring you genuine joy and them, then let go of the rest, rather than get sucked into the materialistic whirlwind."
Beth Kempton, Calm Christmas
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Thursday, December 4, 2025
The Story Of Magic
Christmas Magic
My Papa surprised me one year
With a play house for my doll.
The gift was hand-made and dear,
And came with one open wall.
He made a rustic bed and chair,
A dresser with tiny drawers,
And to the attic, a small stair-
Led up to the outdoors.
Magic is found in surprise,
And not in causation.
It allows possibility to arise
Into our imagination.

Wednesday, December 3, 2025
A New Love Affair With Watercolor
I started my art journey with acrylic paint, then I got braver and used oil paint, and finally in the last year I have seriously tried watercolor. I paint at least once a week and sometimes my attempts are not so pleasant but occasionally I surprise myself. I love it. That's how I feel about the work below.
The season of Fall brings so many colors into focus. Blue and orange along side each are my favorite complimentary colors. I have an online watercolor teacher, Sarah Cray, who does the composition and often even provides the outlines which I can then trace onto watercolor paper. Is that cheating? Maybe someday I will have the skill to draw my own composition.
As Winter approaches I want to play around with some snow scenes even though we rarely have snow here.
Gathering For A Calm Christmas
In order to have a calm Christmas some ingredients must be gathered together.
Yesterday I ordered 25 new candles for my Emanuel Wreath, dusted off the Cable and Cotton lights, and searched for my favorite advent guide. It seems early but day to day life often gets in the way of gathering supplies. If I have everything ready then I'm not tempted to re-purchase supples that I can't find in the last moment. Of the Five Stories of Christmas the Faith Story is most important to me. Each year I add another layer of experience to the many sacred Christmas memories of the past.
In my memories, my mother gathered Christmas together early. She bustled about in November buying a little of the spices, nuts, and chocolate for the coming weeks. She always made the Advent wreath herself which meant gathering boughs and pinecones, ribbons and candles. So much of Christmas is preparation, sacred and secret.
Before
Before Mary set out for Bethlehem
What preparations did she make?
Did she ponder making Him a diadem?
A crown, to honor his namesake?
Did she make the swaddling clothes,
Of borrow them from a cousin?
What details did she choose not to disclose?
Were they a few or maybe a dozen?
I gather the objects that bring the story
Into my time and into my space,
Light, scents, reminders of his glory,
Things that testify of His grace.
"What we need is a way to marry what matters to us with what matters to those we love, and let go of the rest."
Beth Kempton, A Calm Christmas
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