Thursday, December 4, 2025

The Story Of Magic

Christmas Magic

   My Papa surprised me one year

With a play house for my doll.

   The gift was hand-made and dear,

And came with one open wall.


  He made a rustic bed and chair, 

A dresser with tiny drawers,

  And to the attic, a small stair-

Led up to the outdoors.


   Magic is found in surprise,

And not in causation.

   It allows possibility to arise

Into our imagination.



                                       

   One of the five stories of Christmas is the story of magic. My definition of magic is "wonderful,; exciting; as in "what a magical moment", from the Oxford Languages Dictionary. Maybe you believe in Santa Claus, in tiny elves who make gifts, and in reindeer who fly all around the world delivering presents, or maybe you believe in a benevolent monk who surprises others with oranges and gingerbread at Christmas. Whatever magic resides in your past or even in your present it does bring warm memories and feelings of grand possibility. Here are some magic moments which I love remembering.

    Magic Others Created For Me
       One Christmas my grandmother made matching aprons for me and my doll Gretel. We both had pockets and inside she placed an embroidered hanky. Gretel's was adorably tiny.

       My daughter-in-law gave my son and I a gift of attending a  baking class together where we learned to make incredible pies. Being with him and doing the measuring, mixing, and rolling was so fun and I learned how inventive he was when he decorated the pie top.


       When my children were still little two huge packages appeared on our door on Christmas Eve. We were still new to the community and really had no idea who left the boxes. The magic was that the gifts matched the age and interests of each family member. It was uncanny. Who knew us that well?

     My husband secretly purchased a piece of art that I fell in love with during a gallery tour. It was painted by Donna Romero. He hung it on the wall on Christmas Eve and I was the last to notice. She told me later how he came back to purchase the painting and arranged to pick it up Christmas Eve Day.




  Magic I Created For Others
     I made a scavenger hunt for visiting family by taking pictures of little things downtown and then giving two groups the laminated thumbnail pictures and telling them there were prizes for the group that found them all. They had to text me a picture when they located the item.




     My daughter and I took two granddaughters to The Nutcracker Ballet in the city. The Pacific Northwest Ballet was decorated incredibly in the lobby and in the theater. Each granddaughter received a wooden Nutcracker from the gift store.




Magic That Just Happened
    The toy robot I purchased twenty years earlier still worked at Christmas and entertained my grandchildren for hours.




     The Christmas lights across the street lit up a pattern in my living room which sparkled and shined.
      



   My examples demonstrate that magic isn't made solely with money or surprises. Christmas magic is stored all year round and it finds outlets during the season when we allow possibilities to surface. It happens when we are paying attention to others instead of ourselves. Magic happens when we are turned outward.


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Wednesday, December 3, 2025

A New Love Affair With Watercolor

    I started my art journey with acrylic paint, then I got braver and used oil paint, and finally in the last year I have seriously tried watercolor. I paint at least once a week and sometimes my attempts are not so pleasant but occasionally I surprise myself. I love it. That's how I feel about the work below. 


                                        

                                       The season of Fall brings so many colors into focus. Blue and orange along side each are my favorite complimentary colors. I have an online watercolor teacher, Sarah Cray, who does the composition and often even provides the outlines which I can then trace onto watercolor paper. Is that cheating? Maybe someday I will have the skill to draw my own composition. 


   As Winter approaches I want to play around with some snow scenes even though we rarely have    snow here.


Gathering For A Calm Christmas

 In order to have a calm Christmas some ingredients must be gathered together.


Yesterday I ordered 25 new candles for my Emanuel Wreath, dusted off the Cable and Cotton lights, and searched for my favorite advent guide. It seems early but day to day life often gets in the way of gathering supplies. If I have everything ready then I'm not tempted to re-purchase supples that I can't find in the last moment. Of the Five Stories of Christmas the Faith Story is most important to me. Each year I add another layer of experience to the many sacred Christmas memories of the past. 

In my memories, my mother gathered Christmas together early. She bustled about in November buying a little of the spices, nuts, and chocolate for the coming weeks. She always made the Advent wreath herself which meant gathering boughs and pinecones, ribbons and candles. So much of Christmas is preparation, sacred and secret. 


Before


Before Mary set out for Bethlehem

What preparations did she make?

Did she ponder making Him a diadem?

A crown, to honor his namesake?


Did she make the swaddling clothes,

Of borrow them from a cousin?

What details did she choose not to disclose?

Were they a few or maybe a dozen?


I gather the objects that bring the story

Into my time and into my space,

Light, scents, reminders of his glory,

Things that testify of His grace.


"What we need is a way to marry what matters to us with what matters to those we love, and let go of the rest."

Beth Kempton, A Calm Christmas



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Tuesday, December 2, 2025

Calm Christmas

"I have learned that a calm Christmas is usually a good Christmas, which leads to a happy new year."
A Calm Christmas by Beth Kempton



Christmas can be a difficult time for me. I am deeply in love with the religious source of this holiday but as a secular season I can often be overwhelmed by shopping, decorating, and cooking. Some years my stomach seizes up thinking about my unrealistic goals. 
At this time of year I have a beautiful book to guide me through this season.


I would love to share my favorites parts with you and hope you might like to buy it yourself. Every Monday I will write a post about my discoveries on this beloved subject. Here is the table of contents from Beth's book to give you some sense of what she writes about.
 I am writing about each section. This is a landing page and come back to read other posts

Anticipation Before Christmas
Mission Christmas


Celebration During Christmas

Manifestations After Christmas
A Glimpse of The Next Year

To a merrier Christmas and a happier New Year.





  

Sunday, April 9, 2023

He Is Risen

"He is risen, He is risen, tell it out with loud acclaim"


I think today of the sleepless night Mary must have had, grief and sorrow forcing her out early to the tomb. He came to her out of love, f to bind up her broken heart.

"Go to my brethren and say unto them, I ascend unto my Father, and your Father; and to my God and your God."


As the sun comes up this morning I am aware of the miracle of resurrection. I may not understand it but I am fully confident that it is so for all men. Of greatest comfort is that it is so for those I love who have died before me, and that it will be so, for me.


"Did not our heart burn within us, while he talked with us by the way, and while he opened to us the scriptures?"


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Friday, April 7, 2023

Good Friday

The Last Week In the Life of Jesus Christ

"Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do."



Have you wondered why Christians call this day Good Friday? What is good about this day in the life of the Savior?

Jesus uttered seven statements from the cross upon which he was crucified..
  1. "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do."
  2. To the man on the cross next to him he said, "Verily I say unto thee, to day shalt thou be with me in paradise."
  3. Looking down from the cross he said to his mother, "Woman, behold thy son!' Then he said to John, "Behold thy mother."
  4. In the ninth hour Jesus cried, "My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?"
  5. Then he said, "I thirst." President Russel M. Nelson said, "To a doctor of medicine, this is a very meaningful expression. Doctors know that when a patient goes into shock because of blood loss, invariably that patient – if still conscious – with parched and shriveled lips – cries for water.” 
  6. After receiving vinegar for his thirst he said, "It is finished."
  7. Darkness was over all the earth and the veil of the temple was rent in the midst. He then cried with a loud voice, "Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit."

        How can we say this sacrifice was good?





Is it good that he took my sins, my failings, and my misfortune onto himself? I would deny him as my Savior if I said no. It was the focus of his whole life. To bring me, with him back to my loving Heavenly Father and heavenly Mother.




I wince at seeing his suffering. Yet, I rejoice that he willingly submitted  for my sake. 




"Now there stood by the cross of Jesus, his mother, and his mother's sister, Mary, the wife of Cleophas, and Mary Magdalene."

To all the Marys who gave him so much comfort. Take heart. 
For myself I also say, take heart. 

There will be Sunday. 
And he will yet live again.

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Thursday, April 6, 2023

Easter Week- The Longest, Hardest Day

 The Last Week in the Life of Jesus

"During the first of the days of unleavened bread, which was on Thursday, some of the Twelve inquired of Jesus where they should make preparations for the paschal meal."

While reading the story of Passover, going into the Garden of Gethsemane, and the betrayal of Jesus into the hands of the Jewish authorities, I marvel at the emotional connection Jesus had in the midst of anxiety ridden events. As I am learning more of wholeheartedness and integrating emotions into our very identity, I look at Jesus as the model of all I desire in wholehearted living. I'll be using some definitions of emotion to make my points. 




Anxiety- Uncertainty, overwhelming fear, competing demands on our time, or social discomfort.

For Jesus there was an awful certainty about what would transpire and I believe a God who can know us completely would be required to feel all the emotions of mortality. I believe he felt fear and anxiety but was fully anchored in his sense of belonging and connection to His Father. His resilience was divine.



Resentment- An emotion we experience when we fail to set boundaries, when boundaries are ignored, or when expectations let us down because they were based on things we can't control, like what others think, what they feel, or how they react.


Surely he felt some resentment towards others who responded awkwardly and deceptively to him, not fully understanding all that he was offering in this life and in the next. Yet, he gave patience and love.




To me he fully exemplifies a wholehearted self. His thinking, feeling, and doing were fully integrated.











Heartbreak- More than just a particularly hard form of disappointment or failure. It hurts in an entirely different way because heartbreak is always connected to love and belonging.

I hurt for him because he hurt for me, fully submitting to carry my pain, my suffering, my lack, my evil, and my plain misfortune. In a desire for me to belong to him and in his desire to be connected to his Father, he knelt in Gethsemane and paid the awful price for justice to be served.



What an astounding day this was for him and for us all. And Friday will come next.

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